My sweet midwife said that once they get the heartbeat with the dopplar, I can come in any time I want reassurance. Every day, if I want.
Work is still a concern - hey, work, if you're reading this, it's all under control - but I'm on a four day a week telecommuting schedule and plan to bank work like a boss as things get farther along. I just need to keep reminding myself that I was working as of four days after P. was born and then with her at my side for two whole years without missing a beat.
Whatever happens will be what is supposed to happen, right?